Childhood Memories

How much of your childhood memories that you could recalled?

Those childhood memories are either the most bitter ones or the sweetest memories we had. Regardless those emotions you felt, those childhood memories were the foundations of you.

Just like a house, without good foundations, it would not be strong and last long. But it was not the beginning of how a house built. We began by sketching or creating the layout of the house and then we listed down what and who we needed to create that house. With those being listed down, we began to create the timeline on what needed to be done first, then we start to build the house.

Well, it’s the same with us; our childhood memories played an important role in creating who we are right now; our personalities, attitudes; mentally, emotionally , physically and spiritually too. Those sketches that we made before we create a house were those memories we remembered back in our childhood.

The emotions we were mainly felt, the major and minor experiences we had which included traumas, and those years of experienced we had whether physically or emotionally is called the layout.

And that layout is define who we are, our belief systems, shaped our attitudes, such on , and for some, it would developed a new personality too. However, not those with bitter experiences would became heartless or emotionless too. Some may became revengeful, but some who are like me, are so blessed of being protected by the Universe and let the Guardian Angels and GOD direct me to the light. You just have to choose, to let your heart and soul led or you choose your anger and pains to satisfy you. Whichever path you choose, is the right path for you at the presence time.

It was emotionally blackmailed me that I only able to remember 1–2% of my childhood memories. Those bitter experiences were so painful that the whole of me decided to just shut it and buried it deep down. Lately, I wondered, what the little me do, until I had those labelled given by my mom to me? What 3–5 years old me knew about money, love, loneliness and such on. No one taught me, no one told me anything, neither my parents had time to spend with me. I was all alone, grew up alone, made decision alone and everything I relied is myself and GOD.

So dear parents, please make sure not to just be so overpowering to your children but use these childhood moments and years to build them. Let your children discover themselves; let them play, be silly, be hyper and let them just be an explorer. Do not listen to what other parents command you to do; your children may be different but they know who they truly are as an individual more than you know them. You need to discover them through observations while they are just finding ways to express themselves.

Children is smarter than us, adult; because they use their heart and consciousness but adult use most of our egos and experiences to build them.

If you, as parents, ,mistreated them and your kids are on the right path, that is because of their efforts and wisdoms they are born with not because you. If you use angers and physical tortures to build them and yet your kid still have kindness and love in them, that is because he/she is the light of the world.

However, if you are had those painful memories, FACE IT! Bring back those memories and start to heal yourself. Yes, by healing the little you, you can eventually gain those confidence, trust, hope, faith, love or even joy back into your life. No one wanted to recall back a trauma and see it with the eye of love, but by only facing it, we can see it as one of the greatest guru in your life.

Accepting it requires process, but those processes are worthy it in the end. And at the same time while you are healing, you will also begin to understand why things happened in your life , why you became you now. Yes, You can always recreating the painful memories when you let you heart to heal them with love and kindness.

We aware that “no one gives you peace but you”, and when you are living your life with open heart and peace, you know that no one and nothing else matters because the whole of you is the priority.

Remember, to always choose love and let the true you leads; because the best and sweetest revenge is when you love yourself and accept who you are. Let your light shine bright and let them be them.

Love,

The Little Grace